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As a “global management guru and expert in managing times of change” (Bloomberg), I have advised and worked alongside Fortune 500 CEOs, billionaire entrepreneurs and large family business conglomerates across multiple continents. And over the last two years, I have watched something strange happen to brilliant leaders.
They have more information than any executives in history. More data, more dashboards, more analysts. And now, an infinite supply of artificial intelligence (AI) willing to generate one more opinion on demand.
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Yet they are deciding slower than ever before.
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This is the paradox of our moment. The very tools designed to sharpen our judgment are, for many leaders, quietly destroying it.
I call it the decision trap. And it is costing companies far more than they realize.
The casino player in a custom suit
Here is the pattern I see again and again. A leader faces an important decision. They gather information. They build a model. They run the numbers. Then they decide to gather just a little more information before committing. One more analysis. One more expert. One more week.
The deadline slips. The complexity grows. And the leader, now deeply invested, cannot bring themselves to stop—because surely, after all this effort, the perfect answer is just one more step away. It never is.
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This is the psychology of the trapped casino player—not the one who walks in with a budget and leaves when it is gone, but the one who keeps feeding the machine because they have already fed it so much.
It’s sunk cost masquerading as diligence. The fact that you have spent three months on a decision is not a reason to spend a fourth. Every day forward must earn its place on its own merit.
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I learned this the hard way myself. I once spent three months optimizing a single financial decision that should have taken two weeks. I told myself, almost daily, “I’m almost done—just one more thing.” That phrase, repeated for 90 days, was not diligence. It was the trap, wearing the disguise of thoroughness.
More opinions, less clarity
AI has made this trap far more dangerous, because it has made gathering one more opinion effortless and free. Before, seeking a second perspective meant a phone call, a meeting, a fee—natural friction that forced you to decide.
Now you can ask one model, then another, then a third—each one articulate, confident and subtly different. And you mistake this growing pile of perspectives for growing clarity.
It is the opposite. Unlimited cross-checking is not due diligence. It is the casino player’s trap with a research disguise.
More opinions without a stopping rule do not produce more certainty. They produce more noise—and a leader more paralyzed than when they started.
I am not anti-AI. Quite the opposite. I believe AI is the single greatest competitive lever available to business today, and the leaders who fail to embrace it will not have a business in a few years.
My entire group of companies is becoming fully AI native at lightning speed, with AI at the core.
We help countless business leaders and organizations transform to become more AI-savvy and AI native. We have been at the cutting edge of AI for years.
But a tool that delivers infinite analysis is dangerous in the hands of a leader who has no rule for when analysis ends. The technology did not create the trap. It removed the friction that used to save us from ourselves.
Two-way door decisions or not?
One of the most disciplined decision-makers is Jeff Bezos. Early at Amazon, he drew a distinction that every CEO and business owner should tattoo on the boardroom wall.
Some decisions are irreversible. Walk through that door and you cannot walk back. These deserve deep analysis, patience and caution.
But most decisions are not like that. Most are reversible—two-way doors. You can walk through, see what happens and walk back out if you were wrong.
The fatal error, Bezos observed, is treating reversible decisions as if they were irreversible—applying the heavy, slow, exhaustive process meant for the rare one-way door to the hundreds of two-way doors you face every week.
The result is an organization that moves like cold honey while nimbler competitors run past it.
So before your next agonizing analysis, ask one question: Is this a one-way door or a two-way door? If you can reverse it, decide fast, move and learn from reality—which will always teach you more than another spreadsheet. Reserve your patience for the decisions that truly cannot be undone.
Done beats perfect—always
The most expensive words in business are “just a bit more.” Eighty percent competence and moving forward beats 100 percent optimization and staying stuck. Every single time.
The marginal gain you chase from day 20 to day 40 is almost never worth the time it costs—time stolen from the decision after this one, and the one after that.
I worked with the owner of a successful logistics group who had deliberated over a decision for the better part of a year. The analysis was immaculate. The business case was beautiful. And the opportunity was evaporating while a competitor moved in.
The problem was never the quality of his thinking. It was the absence of a stopping rule. Once we had set a hard deadline with a pre-agreed fallback—decide by this date, or default to the safe option and revisit later—he committed within a week. The version he chose was not perfect. It was good enough and aligned. And it won.
That is the discipline. Not lower standards. Better boundaries. You define, in advance and in writing, what “good enough” looks like. When you hit that bar, you are done—even if a theoretically better version exists somewhere beyond it. Because it always does. And chasing it is how great companies quietly grind to a halt.
Your five to thrive
1. Set the deadline and the fallback before you start. Decide upfront: “If I am not done and confident by this date, I default to the safe, simple option and revisit later.” A decision without a pre-agreed fallback is a decision without a finish line.
2. Cap your opinions. Decide in advance how many perspectives—human or AI—you will gather. Two independent views, then you choose. If they disagree, take the safe default. Do not seek a third, fourth or fifth hoping for consensus. That is not research. It is avoidance.
3. Ask: one-way door or two-way door? Reserve deep analysis for the truly irreversible. For everything reversible—which is most things—decide fast, act and let reality teach you.
4. Define “good enough” in writing. Before you begin, name the minimum acceptable outcome. The moment you reach it, stop. Perfect is not a standard. It is a trap.
5. Run the weekly sunk-time check. For any decision that has overrun its budget, ask honestly: “Is the time I am about to spend this week the best use of it—regardless of what I have already spent?” If the answer is no, invoke your fallback and move on. INQ
Tom Oliver, a “global management guru” (Bloomberg), is the chair of The Tom Oliver Group, the trusted advisor and counselor to many of the world’s most influential family businesses, medium-sized enterprises, market leaders and global conglomerates.
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